tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5971785918133196901.post3252272983309596028..comments2023-10-25T21:16:50.180-07:00Comments on xantu magic: Princess diariesxantuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14675631517761759089noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5971785918133196901.post-14282053299055978172022-10-31T08:01:44.568-07:002022-10-31T08:01:44.568-07:00Thanks foor sharingThanks foor sharingCharlotte Home Buildershttps://www.find-home-builder.com/us/custom-house-north-carolina/charlotte-home-builders.shtmlnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5971785918133196901.post-28030989410819059302011-03-14T09:33:26.839-07:002011-03-14T09:33:26.839-07:00That struggle between wanting him to "be more...That struggle between wanting him to "be more" or "do more" and being able to just accept what he does is huge for me. When I am in this spiral I have to remind myself that whatever he chooses is right, and his ultimate pleasure (whether it is at my expense or shared with me) can only be attained by doing as he wishes. Best of luck.Grayhttp://www.passionatesubmission.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5971785918133196901.post-23017328538614079042011-03-14T04:55:40.427-07:002011-03-14T04:55:40.427-07:00Oh I so relate to all of what you've said. I ...Oh I so relate to all of what you've said. I think i want the dark, but i think i'm stuck with the light - likely i couldn't handle the dark anyhow.greengirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06897315716330033528noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5971785918133196901.post-82297973600396266482011-03-14T03:02:20.917-07:002011-03-14T03:02:20.917-07:00What a beautiful post. You're so right - it d...What a beautiful post. You're so right - it does come back to us, to each of us.<br /><br />It sure is easier when they're holding us accountable though...<br /><br />aishaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5971785918133196901.post-20105251128034460452011-03-13T18:39:27.817-07:002011-03-13T18:39:27.817-07:00Xantu,
Those last 2 paragraphs... they struck a ch...Xantu,<br />Those last 2 paragraphs... they struck a chord with me. I've been going through the exact same phase. <br />I keep thinking,"He is not strict enough" and blaming him, rather than taking responsibility.But just like you said I do know that the only person who can always take control of me is me.<br />I hope you get into the right mind set and let me know what works too. Because I'm really struggling with that one. I didn't even know I was until I read this post. <br />Hugs,<br />AlujnaAlujnahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04062551840046946957noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5971785918133196901.post-9290762648436988722011-03-13T15:12:54.987-07:002011-03-13T15:12:54.987-07:00Wow, great post. I'm sorry for the internal st...Wow, great post. I'm sorry for the internal struggle but I can relate. Not at the moment but one of my greatest concerns is that the boy will ease up over time because he feels it's the loving thing to do. Every so often he lets me get away with things that I think I probably should be held accountable for. I need to bite my tongue in the moment. When we choose submission I think we tend to be toughest on ourselves. <br />Best <br /><3justagirlhttp://deferandsubmit.comnoreply@blogger.com