tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5971785918133196901.post7228065025725679944..comments2023-10-25T21:16:50.180-07:00Comments on xantu magic: Warning... whining, insecurity approaching...xantuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14675631517761759089noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5971785918133196901.post-30449125672925407362011-04-07T08:33:09.519-07:002011-04-07T08:33:09.519-07:00It's always a bit odd to see a post that could...It's always a bit odd to see a post that could have come out of my head up on someone elses blog.<br /><br />And the shy thing...Well, the other end of that spectrum is the people who are annoyingly so sure of themselves that they can't even see the friendship opportunities ecause they are already so great they don't need any form of human contact whatsoever.<br /><br />You don't have to help move the bodies...I'll do it lol.Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5971785918133196901.post-39821870203950199932011-04-06T06:27:00.493-07:002011-04-06T06:27:00.493-07:00It is heartening to know that little storms of dou...It is heartening to know that little storms of doubt seem common to many of us. And I so appreciate all your wonderful offers of support and hugs...<br /><br />I most likely will need some remedial training in this friendship thing. I have trouble figuring out how to keep just one and now here are all these beautiful people asking me to dance... yikes... suddenly wants to disappear into the wallpaper... but I will send those emails... just have to figure out what to say... "Hi, I am xantu... and I suck at conversations and sometimes say the oddest things... but I am funny and loyal... I will help you move but won't help you move the bodies."<br /><br />@Malcolm... hmmm... now that sounds just like my Master... do I see a pattern here?xantuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14675631517761759089noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5971785918133196901.post-39011066153991322012011-04-06T03:50:16.272-07:002011-04-06T03:50:16.272-07:00Me too. I was going to say you wrote about me, bu...Me too. I was going to say you wrote about me, but I see from the other comments that others think the same. Trouble is, I don't work at friendships. I neglect them. I don't say sweet things. To hell with friendships, I often think.Malcolmhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18156162412655551672noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5971785918133196901.post-21867903920711582322011-04-05T17:47:35.534-07:002011-04-05T17:47:35.534-07:00Hey...wow.
First, the school system can be very is...Hey...wow.<br />First, the school system can be very isolating, very confusing...too hard to figure out what to overlook and when. i understand the cliques that exist there. Confusing. Very. Frankly, i got nervous everytime i got called to the principals office even though it was normally for us to laugh at the Powers That Be.<br />i was frankly, *shocked* when i was told all of the teachers liked me. i had been braced to hear they did not, that i was too stand offish. Too quiet. Too young. Too friendly or not friendly enough.<br /><br />Second, <br />friendships take work. i'm sure you know that. Maybe some ppl make you feel safe and that is why you put "too much out there." Maybe some people make you feel uncomfortable because something is wrong with *them* (not you).<br />Its a risk. Certainly. To reach out. But you really do often make me think, impress me, inspire me. You are an amazing person.<br />It seems that the crazy lady is one busy bitch. She makes housecalls to all of us. Check that lock, would you? Geeze.pains angelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09637929062675251713noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5971785918133196901.post-65468332223865683322011-04-05T09:45:15.576-07:002011-04-05T09:45:15.576-07:00I know just how you .. (and those who have comment...I know just how you .. (and those who have commented) feel.<br />I'm a mess socially .. a total mess. <br />Leave me alone and do not make me go out and talk to anyone!<br /><br />I read somewhere that submissive women are likely to be the shy, awkward, insecure , etc. kind of people.<br /><br />Wish I knew where I'd read that bit.<br /><br />People who know me are surprised if by some horrible chance they find out the truth of my shyness and fright. <br />I guess I'm good at faking that part of life.<br /><br />If I had a blog , I could have written your post. <br />It seems you're not the least alone.. and neither are we~!<br />What a group we make! <br />{{hugs}}nbshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12817508431335142670noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5971785918133196901.post-28443594523446286842011-04-05T07:25:43.846-07:002011-04-05T07:25:43.846-07:00oooh mouse knows how you feel...really totally doe...oooh mouse knows how you feel...really totally does. You can totally email mouse anytime!<br /><br />Hugs,<br />mousemousehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11667539092853565037noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5971785918133196901.post-26522326123094450392011-04-05T07:14:12.262-07:002011-04-05T07:14:12.262-07:00O.M.G.
We share a crazy lady. She's actually ...O.M.G.<br /><br />We share a crazy lady. She's actually the same person. Is it still schizophrenia when it's two bodies and one personality? <br /><br />I'll try to be better at reaching out. I see you on chat all the time and I don't because I think "I don't want to bug her. Wear out my welcome. I wonder if she just tolerates me?". <br /><br />This makes me want to cry, for you, for nilla, for me...for all of us.little monkeyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17848892051993672991noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5971785918133196901.post-70167957846844157242011-04-05T07:05:25.014-07:002011-04-05T07:05:25.014-07:00wait.
wait.
are you me?
shy, withdrawn, talkat...wait. <br /><br />wait.<br /><br />are you me?<br /><br />shy, withdrawn, talkative sometimes too much, other times too little...<br /><br />gawd. i have worked hard to be better socially, but really it is hard for me.<br /><br />going to NYC as a chaperone, with teens, and 5 other adults i didn't know all that well gave me more trauma in my head than the driving did.<br /><br />i didn't spend a second worrying about the driving...<br /><br />and it turns out the Advisor and i got along great...both sharing childhood stories...and it flowed and was a nice time. The kids were great and mostly focused on each other so it was okay there, too.<br /><br />my wife is very chatty. like "omg stfu" chatty.<br /><br />she talks to people in line at the grocery store. everyfucking where. weird.<br /><br />i talked to a few people in the City when there, people that had a "resonance" that i felt comfortable with. <br /><br />But xantu? i get this. You can be my friend. i might not write too much, too often. but then i'll pop back and send a note. <br /><br />i do that. . . "dropping" away thing...and work on it. i would love to be your friend....*smiles* <br /><br />nillanillahttp://vanillamom.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.com